Serving
Hasty
After sacrament meeting the bishop called me into his office
for a talk. Here it comes, I thought, Im going to be the new
teachers quorum president, Ill bet. I was filled with pride
and excitement. Wow, is the ward ever going to heap handshakes on
me. Mom will be so proud!
I sat in the big chair across from the bishop. He was a pleasant
man, smiling as always, but I felt that even so, this conversation
was going to be an important one.
Steve, we have an assignment for you, he said.
My heart raced!
This is a special good neighbor assignment.
Were concerned about Hasty McFarlan. Hes a pretty sad
old man, you know. He needs someone to befriend him. Hes not
a member of the Church, but Gods love reaches to all people,
and we as members of his church have the responsibility to show
it. Maybe I should say we have the privilege of showing that love.
I guess I must have looked stunned.
You know Hasty, dont you, Steve? asked
the bishop.
My memory jumped back a couple of weeks to when some friends
and I had made fun of the old man by singing jingles and shouting
the jokes we had made up about him.
Yes, I know him, I said, choking down my disappointment
and guilt. Hes the old hermit who lives outside of town.
Right, said the bishop. I would like you
to go out and visit him two or three times a week.
Okay, was the only answer I could manage. The
bishop must have detected my crestfallenness, because he leaned
forward in his chair and looked at me carefully.
Now, if this assignment will be too much, dont
be afraid to say so.
I sighed. Oh, Ill do it, sir, I said.
Good, said the bishop with a smile, and before
I could catch my breath, he went on. You can chop wood for
the fire and get him food, blanketswhatever he needs to help
him feel wanted. Be a friend. Your father is aware of the assignment,
and he told me he would help you. Your Heavenly Father will be prompting
you, too.
Yes sir, I said.
On the long hike to his cabin after school that first
afternoon, it seemed to me that every pine along the trail whispered
Hastys loneliness.
Most of the kids and even some of the townspeople
had the habit of making unkind remarks or doing something clever
whenever Hasty was around. Would he remember me as one of the tricksters?
By the time I reached the cabin, I was genuinely frightened.
I knocked. No answer. I knocked again. I knew he had to be
in there. Where else could he go?
Hasty, are you there?
Hearing a rustling, I poked my head in as far as I dared
and peeked around the door. It was cold in Hastys cabin and
very dark. I could just make out the figure of a man on the bed.
He was all slouched down.
He looked like he was slouching
because there was no reason to do anything else. I noticed that
the soiled, mildewed blanket he was sitting on was more hole than
blanket.
Hasty, is there anything I can do for you? I
managed to blurt out.
I told him my name and that the bishop from the LDS Church
had sent me to see how he was doing and to help out. He said nothing.
Hasty, your fire is out. No reply. Can
I chop some wood? No reply.
I went outside, found an axe and some stacked stumps, and
began chopping kindling. With every strike of the axe my brain pounded.
What am I doing out here? Why me? Why?
Quit grumbling, a voice inside me said. The
old man is cold and lonely, and you can help him.
I got a fire going and tried to talk to him, but after a
few minutes I decided he wasnt really listening. He needed
a new blanket, so I told him I would get a thick, clean comfortable
one, and the next day I did. After that I came every other day.
Slowly, over the next several weeks, he began talking.
One day after we had talked some he said, Boy, why
do you come? Im sure a kid your age can find better things
to do than visit a sick old varmint like me. But Im glad you
come. And then he smiled.
At Thanksgiving I invited Hasty to our house for dinner.
He didnt come, but our family took part of the dinner to him.
There were tears in his eyes as he tried to thank us.
I discovered as our visits continued that Hasty had been
a sheepherder. Once he had had a wife and children, but they had
gotten a terrible fever and died of it.
Feeling in his grief that his life had been shattered, Hasty
wandered the country as a vagabond. A diseased growth on the side
of his face made one eye blind. And the teasing and practical joking
had begun.
But to me the old man didnt seem as ugly and frightening
anymore. In fact, after school I hurried to his cabin to help him
and to listen to his stories.
When Christmas arrived, we invited him to dinner once again.
This time he came, and whats more, he came in a suit, all
cleaned and handsome. He looked great. A smile curved his lips.
Hasty was happy because we showed him he was needed.
As we finished dinner, the old man bowed his head for a second,
and then raised it and said, You people sure are wonderful.
My life has been a shambles for a long time, but the love youve
shown is making me a different person. Im very grateful.
As he said that, I could feel a little fire in my chest getting
big. It felt good (Terry Dale, Hasty, New Era,
Jan.-Feb. 1981, pp. 10-11).
Discussion
How would Hastys life have been different if Steve,
his bishop, and his family had not taken an interest in him?
Do you know someone you could make happier by serving in
some way?
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